Open and having no filter.

Being someone who is incredibly open and lacks a filter can be both a blessing and a challenge. It’s a quality that stems from authenticity and a desire to be transparent in your interactions with the world. But it can also come with its fair share of interesting, if not sometimes awkward, moments. I would know because this is me all day everyday. Yeah, I do use tact and know there is a time and a place for everything. Generally speaking I’m open, honest and unfiltered, take it or leave it. This could explain why I have like 3 friends(🤣🤣)

1. Authenticity Reigns Supreme

One of the most significant advantages of being unfiltered is authenticity. You’re never afraid to show the real you, flaws and all. This honesty can lead to deep and genuine connections with people who appreciate your openness.

2. No Hidden Agenda

Having no filter means you’re not into mind games or hidden motives. People around you usually know where they stand with you, and you’re refreshingly direct in your communication.

3. The Art of Over-sharing

On the flip side, there’s a fine line between being open and over-sharing. Sometimes, the information you divulge may be a tad too personal or even TMI for some. Finding the right balance is an ongoing challenge.

4. Honesty Sometimes Hurts

Being open means you don’t sugarcoat things. While honesty is commendable, it can also hurt, especially when you need to give critical feedback or confront difficult truths.

5. Foot-in-Mouth Syndrome

Your filterless nature can occasionally lead to foot-in-mouth syndrome. You might unintentionally blurt out something that’s best left unsaid in certain situations. It’s all part of the learning process.

6. Vulnerability Hangover

Sharing your innermost thoughts and feelings can leave you feeling emotionally exposed. After particularly candid conversations, you might experience what I like to call the “vulnerability hangover.”

7. Building Strong Connections

While some may find your lack of filter challenging, others will appreciate your openness and vulnerability. These connections often become some of the most meaningful relationships in your life.

8. Learning to Read the Room

Over time, you’ll develop the skill of “reading the room.” You’ll know when it’s best to be unfiltered and when to exercise a little more discretion. It’s a fine-tuning process that comes with experience.

9. Embracing Self-Awareness

Being open and having no filter forces you to confront and understand your own emotions and thoughts. This journey of self-awareness can be transformative and lead to personal growth.

10. Accepting Imperfection

Embracing your unfiltered nature also means accepting that you’re not perfect. You’ll make mistakes, say the wrong things, and occasionally put your foot in your mouth, but it’s all part of being human.

In the end, being too open and lacking a filter is a unique aspect of your personality. It’s a quality that sets you apart and can make your life more colorful and interesting. While it may require a bit of fine-tuning, it’s an essential part of who you are. Embrace it, learn from it, and use it to create deeper, more meaningful connections with the people around you. Your authenticity is a gift to the world, even if it sometimes comes with an unedited truth bomb or two.