Indulging Occasionally

There are days when being a mom to three kids feels like I’m running a marathon with no finish line in sight. The constant juggle between cooking, cleaning, working, and managing the chaos can leave me feeling like I’m just surviving rather than thriving. But every now and then, amidst the chaos and endless to-do lists, I carve out a little time for myself, a little space to indulge in something that’s just for me.

One of my guilty pleasures, something that feels like a rare luxury in the midst of the daily grind, is getting all dolled up. I’m talking about the whole shebang: makeup, cute outfit, nails done – the works. It’s like stepping into a different world, one where I’m not just “Mom” but where I can reclaim a bit of my identity beyond the roles I play.

Sure, most days I’m rocking the messy bun and yoga pants, and that’s perfectly fine. But there’s something undeniably empowering about taking the time to put on a face that says, “Hey world, I’m here, and I mean business.” It’s not about conforming to societal standards or trying to impress anyone else – it’s about doing something that makes *me* feel good.

There’s a sense of pride that comes with carefully selecting an outfit, applying makeup with precision, and adding those finishing touches like jewelry and killer shoes. It’s like I’m saying to myself, “I deserve this. I deserve to feel beautiful and confident, even if it’s just for a little while.”

And let’s not forget the sheer joy of catching a glimpse of myself in the mirror and thinking, “Damn, I look good.” It’s not about vanity; it’s about recognizing and celebrating the effort I’ve put into myself, even when it feels like there’s no time to spare.

Sure, there are days when the last thing I want to do is wrestle with eyeliner or spend hours agonizing over the perfect outfit. But on those rare occasions when I do indulge, it’s like hitting the reset button for my soul. It reminds me that I’m more than just a mom or an employee – I’m a multifaceted, complex individual with a sense of style and flair all my own.

So here’s to those moments of self-indulgence, those stolen minutes of glamour in the midst of the mundane. Because sometimes, amidst the chaos of everyday life, it feels damn good to get all dressed up and remind myself that I’m worth it.